A Cuban woman has gone viral on TikTok after posting a video where she reveals her strategy for capturing and maintaining a man's interest when they first meet. According to her, the key is to tap into a man's ego, which she claims is their most vulnerable spot.
One of her tactics involves making statements like, "I never get too comfortable with anyone because people always change." She believes this approach signals to the man that if he stops being attentive, giving flowers, or planning dates, she won't hesitate to walk away.
Another technique she mentions is planting seeds of doubt about how he is perceived, with phrases like, "I don't know what to think of you; sometimes you're a 10, and other times you're a 6." She argues that this encourages him to maintain the same level of effort he showed at the beginning of the relationship.
When faced with questions such as "Do you miss me?" the Cuban woman advises responding with, "I enjoy being with you, but I also love my alone time." This, she claims, conveys that she is emotionally independent and not reliant on the relationship, prompting him to appreciate her autonomy.
Her final piece of advice is to never seem overly impressed, even when the man is trying to win her over. Phrases like, "I love that you're trying, but you haven't impressed me yet," are recommended. She believes this ensures that he continues to put in the effort and remains committed over time.
The TikTok video has sparked a variety of reactions, with users debating the effectiveness of these strategies in real-life situations.