A young Cuban living in the United States has sparked an intense discussion on social media after sharing a TikTok video where he critiques one of the most frequently asked questions among Cubans abroad: "How long have you been here?"
In his video, TikTok user @brayan_eljoker humorously questions, "Why is it that every time I meet another Cuban, they ask how long I've been here, as if I'm serving a sentence?" He sarcastically adds, "I'm free. I've been here for several years now. What's your issue? I'm here to stay; I'm not leaving."
The young man's message highlights a sentiment shared by many Cubans residing outside the island, particularly in the United States and Europe. He notes that this question often carries a tone of superiority: "And if they've been here longer than me, I have to show respect."
While his words have resonated with thousands of Cubans in the diaspora, the video has also attracted criticism from those who see it as mere curiosity or a way to start a conversation. The post has garnered thousands of views and comments, reflecting a common feeling among Cuban migrants: the desire to challenge inherited social norms and reevaluate the dynamics of living in exile.
Beyond its humorous tone, the video addresses a recurring theme among the Cuban diaspora: the unspoken hierarchies based on time spent abroad and the pressure to "prove" one's integration or success in a foreign land.
Understanding Cuban Social Dynamics Abroad
Why do Cubans often ask about the length of stay abroad?
This question is commonly asked as a way to gauge one's experience or integration into a new country, often reflecting unspoken social hierarchies.
How has the TikTok video by @brayan_eljoker impacted the Cuban community?
The video has sparked discussions among Cubans abroad, highlighting the need to question traditional social norms and reevaluate interactions within the diaspora.