A Cuban Woman in Brazil Shares What She Would Do Differently If She Migrated Again

A young Cuban woman residing in Brazil has taken to TikTok to share insights on the mistakes she wouldn't repeat if she had to migrate once more, sparking widespread reactions among fellow migrants who relate to her experiences. In the video, posted by user @yaicontigo, the woman showcases aspects of her daily routine while outlining three decisions she would completely alter in hindsight. The first is paying too much attention to other people's experiences. "Every person is a different world," she notes, adding that many tried to discourage her when she arrived in Brazil with "idealized" goals, which she insists she has been achieving gradually. "I wouldn't stop following my heart because of others' experiences," she emphasizes.

The second mistake she highlights is placing too much trust in others, especially fellow Cubans. "I went through some very unpleasant situations with people, and the saddest part is that they were Cubans just like me," she laments. Nevertheless, she mentions having also met supportive individuals and asserts that while she would continue to help those in need, she would do so "with much more caution."

The third regret she shares is spending too much money upon arrival, under the impression that everything was cheap compared to prices in Cuba. "I spent a lot of money unnecessarily, which I could have used for more important things," she comments. It was only after starting to work and gaining a better understanding of the Brazilian economy that she began managing her resources more efficiently.

Responses: "The Whole Truth"

The post ignited a robust conversation among migrants, particularly Cubans in Brazil. Many users shared similar stories. "I spent five thousand dollars trying to start a business and still have a lot of merchandise left," one user commented. Another added, "I wouldn't buy used appliances again, I lost money."

Others agreed with the advice regarding others' experiences: "Each person lives their own experiences," "I wouldn't let anyone guide me; some people have a knack for discouraging," they wrote.

A Common Theme Among Cuban Migrants

@yaicontigo's account adds to a growing collection of viral videos from Cuban women abroad sharing their learnings. In Miami, one young woman advised against taking multiple jobs and encouraged starting a business from the beginning. In the Netherlands, another Cuban suggested learning the language and seeking cultural integration, while from Spain, a third urged newcomers to save money and avoid working for other Cubans due to negative work experiences.

In Uruguay, a Cuban detailed initial living and housing costs precisely, recommending arriving with between $2,500 and $4,500 depending on accommodation type, and prioritizing savings from the start.

In all cases, these publications resonate with migrant communities that value practical, realistic advice based on personal experience. As one user remarked after watching @yaicontigo's video: "That's right, queen... others' experiences are to be heard, but one must forge their own path."